We Patched Up again But He Isn't Ready To Commit
Dear AmmieI am going around with my chidhood friends.we had a break up, I was the one to patch up again but he isn't reddy to commit. He says he can't go again his parents' wishes. He loves me, no dout. We are physically intimate too. I know he won't marry me at any cost. My problem is like every crazy lover I love him a lot but he isn't aware of my felings. I have loved him without any expectations. I can't even thinks of losing him in my dream too please help...
Dear Payal
You cannot push a guy into committing. if he isn't ready, he isn't ready. But at the same time, you cannot wait endlessly. So have a chat with him. Ask him to give you a time period when he will be ready to commit. Whether it is six moths, one year or two years. And if you are willing to wait for that long, and tou trush his word, then you can you have a future with him. But if he says that he cannot even tell you when he will be ready to make it official with you , I think he is not serious about the relationship and you soner you accept that, the better for you. You cannot live by love alone . You say you are scared to even think of life without him, it just sticking around will not ensure that you might not find yourself alone someday. What if three years down the line he says that he doesn't want to marry you? You will feel worse because you didn't have that talk with him. There are no guarantees that he will be in yours life forever, even if you get a ring from him or even after "I do."Have faith in yourself. And believe that you will bounce back from whatever bad things happen in your life.Hope for the best but be prepred for the worst...
